Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy sent me an advance copy of her new ebook called Work Shift: How to Create a Better Blend of Work, Life, and Family. This ebook discusses the rising shift of non-traditional working situations for American families, and it features examples of women who are working to create a blend of their professional careers with their home life, rather than trying to balance it all.
Anne explains how the book came to fruition in the story of her own family. Thinking she wanted only to be a stay-at-home-mom, Anne began to work part-time as a way to help pay for some medical bills. With her husband’s flexible work schedule, there was no need to pay out of pocket for child care. The situation turned out to benefit the whole family: Anne could work and get some autonomous adult time while contributing to the family’s income. Her husband could get some bonding time with their children, and her kids received the benefit of both parents sharing the role of caregiver.
Anne discusses her family as merely one example of a fast-growing trend of families who blend the roles of money-maker and caregiver. With the advancements of technology and the internet, this has never been easier.
Anne provides a brief history of the workforce, discussing how up until the Industrial Revolution, the center of the family was at home. The husband and wife worked together to run a farm or shop, involving the children in the process. After the Industrial Revolution, men started leaving the home for work, disrupting the nuclear family for most of the day. With the Women’s Movement of the twentieth century, women broke down the workplace barriers, giving new opportunities in the workplace that were never available before. However, these women had to choose between a having a career or being home with the family. There were very few options for a middle ground.
The women of today are shedding both the stereotypes of June Cleaver (stay-at-home moms) as well as Claire Huxtable (career moms) and embracing something entirely different. Anne says, “We have no feminist axe to grind and we’re not out to prove anything. We just want to create a life that allows us to do meaningful work and be there for our families.” The book highlights women on all ends of the working spectrum, from popular bloggers to Etsy shop owners to hair stylists and more, showing how women can both provide for their families financially as well as spend time with their children.
I especially like how the book addresses roadblocks, like how to address a husband who may be reluctant to change, how to work through mommy guilt, and how to accept the seasons of life while your children are at different ages. In addition, the book provides resources to help women at every stage of adult life: single, married, pregnant, and moms with every age of child from newborn to teenager. The book gives inspiration to all women who are looking to either spend more time with their families or to pull in some extra cash every month.
Anne also addresses the biggest takeaway, our children:
“Kids are big winners in the new blend, because of the emphasis on shaping a life that works for the family as a whole. Many families who have embraced less-than-traditional schedules appreciate the teamwork and mutual respect the parents model for their kids. Because many of these families have one or both spouses who work from home, kids in these households have a handle on what their parents actually do all day.”
In my short tenure as a wife and mom, I have worked full-time, part-time away from home, and part-time at home. I am currently a traditional stay-at-home mom, but I am no longer in the preschool/newborn phase of life. We are entering the elementary/preschool age with my kids, and I want to contribute to our finances again. I recently started writing in an effort to build up my portfolio, so that I could start writing for income. Reading Work Shift provided a boost of encouragement as well as offered new ideas for blending work and home as my family enters this new season.
Anne has generously offered a free copy of Work Shift to one of my readers. If you would like to win a copy of this ebook, all you need to do is comment below. The giveaway will be open until Saturday, September 22 at 9:00 PM, and the winner will be chosen randomly.
If you do not want to wait to read this book, you may purchase a copy for only $8 through this link.
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